We Don't Need Any New Recruits

I know a very beautiful 24 year old woman who has a broken heart. I've known this girl her whole life. She comes from a wonderful, loving family. Her boozing, cheating, lying boyfriend just broke up with her....for the second time.

She wants so much for him to change. She's finding herself driving around looking for him at all hours, spying on him, and worrying herself incessantly. She's become a CIT (Codependent-In-Training).

I talked with this girl a little and shared part of my story. I told her that even though it may not seem like it right now, she's been given a wonderful gift; the chance to move on and start her life over again. The chance to get to know herself, and to one day find a partner she can trust. I'll be saying some prayers for this girl. I hope it will help.